Wednesday, February 24, 2021
Racism and the UMC
Monday, February 22, 2021
Spiritual Disciplines: Fasting
There is not a set list of the spiritual disciplines, or maybe a better way to say that is there is not an exhaustive list. Any activity that helps you focus your life in Christ, that helps you become more Christ-centered as our core values call for, or that helps you deepen your faith or relationship with God, could be a spiritual discipline. But there are some disciplines that most people talk about. Some of them include prayer and service, which we are not going to talk about in this series because we just talked about them in our series on our core values. But, in what is probably the best book on the spiritual disciplines, called Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster, who is a Quaker and was born in New Mexico, he lists 12 disciplines, four of which we are going to discuss, fasting, confession, scripture reading and worship and then we’re going to look at another that he doesn’t cover, but which is also crucial to a deepened spiritual life and that is giving, which I know you are all looking forward to. But, again, the purpose of all of the activities is to help us grow in our faith and our relationship with God by being intentional, by disciplining ourselves to a certain activity. We do not do these so we can check off some box, or so that we can brag about it, so that it becomes a rote law, which can lead to spiritual death. We practice the disciplines so we can grow and become freer in our faith and relationship with God.
Wednesday, February 17, 2021
Call to Lenten Practices
Today is Ash Wednesday,
the beginning of the season of Lent. While we talk about the 40 days of Lent,
there are actually 46 days if you count the Sundays. But, we don’t count the
Sundays because every Sunday is a “little” Easter and so they exist outside of
Lent. Normally when I say that someone will then ask, “Does that mean I don’t
have to do [whatever it is they are doing for Lent] on Sundays?” And my
response is that if you are looking for ways to get out of it, loopholes as it
were, then perhaps you might not be doing whatever it is for the right reason.
While people often think of Lent as being a depressing time of the church, it doesn’t have to be. After all, as Richard Foster, the author of Celebration of Discipline, probably one of, if not the, best book written about the disciplines, says, celebration is a discipline. Additionally, since every Easter is a little Sunday, that means that we gather to praise God and celebrate what was accomplished through Christ’s resurrection every single week. Although we don’t sing or shout alleluias in Lent until Palm Sunday.
In our worship series for Lent we will be looking at a few of the spiritual disciplines, which are those things that we do in order to deepen our relationship with God. And while most often we talk about the personal disciplines, there are also corporate disciplines, things we do together, and so we will be looking at a couple of those as well. That, hopefully, well help us encounter some of these practices in a new or different way.
So, while Lent doesn’t have to be depressing, it should be intentional. It should be a time for us to intentionally take on a spiritual practice in order to deepen our relationship with God and/or to make us better disciples. But, here’s the catch , which I tend to say every year, once you start something don’t stop. Make it a permanent behavior.
I knew someone who stopped eating red meat every year for Lent, and in doing so he would talk about how red meat is not really good for your body in the amounts we eat it. Plus, it’s not good for the environment. But, if it’s healthy to stop for 40 days and not good for the environment for 40 days, isn’t it also unhealthy and not environmentally unsustainable for all of the 325 other days? So why not keep going?
Several years ago for Lent I decided I was going to be a more patient driver and not yell at other drivers who were doing dumb things around me. And you know what? It was a great experience and I kept doing it. Now I’m not as dedicated to it as I once was, but I still think about it and try and check myself when it’s getting to be too much, and I hope it’s made me more patient not just in driving but in other areas of my life. That was a successful Lenten practice for me.
And so I would encourage the same for you. Find something in which you need some improvement, or try something entirely new, and then keep doing it. They say you need to do something for at least 28 days for it to become a habit, and now you have potentially 46 days in which to make something a part of your life.
I would also recommend using the daily devotional that some of the churches, including ours, put together for Lent. We have hard copies, including large print, available at the church, or you may use the electronic version which you will find in this newsletter.
I also hope you will join our Ash Wednesday service tonight at 6 pm. Since we are not together for worship, you can make your own ashes either by burning up some paper, or old palms if you have them, or take some ashes out of a fire and grind them up into fine particles and have them available during worship, possibly with some olive or vegetable oil available as well, and I will give some instruction on how to apply them.
I pray that you will have a meaningful and purposeful Lenten season this year.
Monday, February 15, 2021
Core Values: In Service and Mission
But, he sat down with them and explained what we were doing and asked if they would be willing to be a partner. The pastor he met with then asked how they could get new members of the church from the pantry? He wasn’t sure what they were asking, and so asked for clarification, and was told that unless they could be guaranteed that new people would start attending their church because of the pantry then they weren’t interested in participating. That is, the only reason to be of service to the world, the only reason to help others in need, the only reason to offer Christ’s love was if, to be a little blunt, it would put more butts in the seats.
Wednesday, February 10, 2021
Authentic and Aspirational Core Values
As I was doing research for the series on our core values, I read about a church that named one of their core values as being outreach. As they were looking for a new pastor, since they weren’t Methodists, they named that as one of the core things they wanted their new pastor to do: Help them welcome new people and grow. The pastor they choose said that he was passionate about reaching new people and was excited that they wanted to do the same thing.
When the new pastor got to the church he began making changes to help the church reach more people. It started with some changes in worship, then to the leadership, then to policies and procedures, and their faith development activities, and the changes worked. New people started coming, and staying, and the church was growing. And then reality struck. The members who had been there before realized that these new people were different. And even worse, they liked the changes that had been made and wanted to make even more!
And that’s when the truth emerged. They said they wanted to grow, but what they really wanted was for everything to stay exactly as it had been before, when, honestly, they weren’t growing, and get new people. They wanted new people, but only if the new people would change and become like everyone who was there before. They had articulated a value of outreach, but what they said and what they actually wanted was not the same thing. Their articulated value was disconnected from their reality.
There are two different types of core values: authentic and aspirational. Authentic core values are the ones we live every day, even if we don’t recognize them, and they are hard to change. That means we may also have core values that are negative, or that we do things that are different from whom we want to be. That could then lead us to create aspirational core values, values that state who we want to be, or what we want to be true, and begin to strive to make those a reality.
In the church above, outreach turned out to be an aspirational core value, but their true core value was safety and identity of the group. When their authentic value conflicted with their aspirational value, they wanted to stick to who they truly were and abandon outreach. Aspirational values are great and important because they can cause us to change, if we are willing to do it. But authentic values are more often what drive us.
It’s also possible to have values that are both authentic and aspirational, and I think/hope that is what our core values represent. The One Board even had this conversation when we were naming them last year. For example, one of our values is that of being prayerful. I know there are some dedicated prayers in this congregation, who have that as one of their spiritual gifts, and I also know that there are some who rarely pray. We also do a good job of bathing a lot of things in prayer, but not everything. And so we are both aspirational and authentic in that value.
We have also set an expectation that everyone will pray at least once a day, and as we approach making that a reality, I would expect that we will increase our expectation, and so then it becomes more aspirational again. And I think that is true for all of our values. These are not static things that have no movement. We should always be pushing to be better in all of them because there is always room for growth, or as John Wesley would say, we are moving on to perfection.
So, as we complete our series this Sunday, I hope that together we will
hold these core values as being authentic to whom we truly are, and also as
aspirational as to whom we want to become.
Monday, February 8, 2021
Core Values: Caring and Compassionate
At the beginning of the film he keeps walking past a homeless man asking for money, and he pretends that he doesn’t have anything, until eventually he is buying him meals and trying to help him survive through the night. Every day he goes to the same spot to save a young boy falling out of a tree, and performing the Heimlich maneuver, so that he endless repeat of the same day is helping people all day long. In many ways, the movie is a metaphor for Christian conversion. Moving from the ways of the world, to the ways of God. Moving from being self-centered and thinking only about ourselves, to becoming caring and compassionate towards the world, giving of ourselves for the needs of others. I think it’s a great metaphor for the core value that we look at today that we have identified as a congregation, and that is being compassionate and caring.
Wednesday, February 3, 2021
Different Learning Styles in Worship
Monday, February 1, 2021
Core Values: Growing Spiritually
This week we had to submit our annual statistics to the annual conference, which includes reporting on our finances, but then also about worship attendance, and membership, and how many people are impacted by the ministries of the church, and baptisms and participation in Sunday school and other classes. That is they are asking me to report things that they can count to try and account for how we are making disciples. The problem is, none of the things we have to report really say anything about that ultimately. Because you could have a youth group of 50, but not have them coming into relationship with Jesus, and you could have a youth group of five that is making deep disciples. So which is better? Well off of straight statistics, the conference is going to be happier with the 50, than with the five, even though our goal is making disciples. Of course you could have the opposite as well, I am not saying that big is bad, but it’s a matter of what is actually happening in those groups, which is harder to define.
In 2004, Willow Creek Community Church, which is located outside of Chicago and is one of the largest churches in the country, did try and quantify their ability to make disciples and to deepen people in their spiritual journey. Willow Creek, which began in 1975, was one of the primary pushers of the idea of creating a seeker church to bring in unchurched people by removing all the things that people associated with being church. And so, in their own admission, they undertook this survey to really prove how successful they had been in fulfilling the great commission and making disciples of Christ. But, the survey showed the opposite. That while they were great at getting people through the door, they were not moving them past seeking into discipleship.