Monday, November 22, 2021

Extravagant Joy

Here is my message from Sunday. The text was Matthew 6:25-33 and 2 Corinthians 8:1-12:

When I was serving churches in New England, I was attending a clergy meeting, although I don’t remember the purpose, but one of the other clergy there was serving a church that had a sizeable homeless population in their neighborhood that they served. And so he was talking about that, and said that during a worship service he saw one of the homeless men put a couple of dollars into the offering plate, and he went out and stopped the plate, took the money out and handed it back to the man and told him he didn’t need to make an offering. My response to that was “who do you think you are that you would stop him from giving.” Now I understand all the other arguments that could be made about someone who is homeless needing the money more than the church. Or perhaps he felt like he had to make an offering. That he would stand out if he didn’t put anything into the plates. But the flip side of all of those is our need or desire to give. That even though the man did not have a lot of money, and perhaps even what he put in was all he had, but that he was going to give because of his blessings. He was going to give out of his abundance, as Jesus says of the widow in the Temple who puts in her only two pennies, rather than trying to preserve from a sense of scarcity. I don’t know, but I do know that we all need to have the opportunity to be able to give, because giving is not a requirement, it’s an opportunity, and a response to what God has already done for us.

That was the story that came to mind this week as I was working on the passage from Paul’s second letter to the Corinthians. In the letter as a whole Paul is trying to rebuild relationship with this church that he established and clearly thinks so much of, but they have come under the influence of a group that Paul facetiously calls the super apostles. But before he gets to them, he returns to a topic that he had actually been addressing to them before and that is taking up an offering for the church in Jerusalem. While the Corinthians had originally begun to do that, it appears they stopped, although why is not clear, and so Paul is giving them an example of the other churches, and notice that it is plural, in Macedonia, which is north of Greece and is possible the churches in Philippi and Thessalonica, although that’s speculation again. But what is striking is what Paul says about these churches. As they were suffering some unknown affliction, that they were still filled with abundant joy and gave out of their extreme poverty an offering overflowing “in a wealth of generosity.”

And to make the point even clearer, Paul says that they did this of their own accord. Paul did not plan a worship series on stewardship in order to get them motivated. And, in fact, he says they begged Paul to be able to participate in this offering. Perhaps Paul had, mistakenly it appears, believed that they had nothing to give because of either the afflictions they were undergoing or because of their extreme poverty, and so he wasn’t asking them to participate. But because of their abundant joy in what they had already received from God, they needed to be able to give back. That perhaps they could not give as much as others, especially the church in Corinth which has some people of some means, but that doesn’t stop their ability or desire or willingness to give. To be able to express their generosity.

In first John we are told that we love because God first loved us. And so what Paul is saying is that we give, as I have said the past few weeks, because God first gave to us. We give because God is a giver. Giving should flow naturally from who we are, made in the image of God. And, being generous, being extravagantly generous is an expression of our faith. But, giving is not a salvation issue. We are saved by faith alone. I know that there are people who will tell you that you have to give. That we will be judged by how we give. And it’s not true. We will be judged on our relationship to our money and our in the sense that it’s a matter of if we are putting God first. As Jesus says just before the gospel passage we heard today, you cannot serve two masters because you will love one and hate the other. Or as we heard in the passage from Deuteronomy as we began this series, and as Jesus also quotes as being one of the two greatest commandments, that we are to love the Lord our God will all of our heart, all of our soul, all of our strength. That is with all that we have and all that we are. And so if we are withholding in that, which, let’s be honest, is really easy to do. In fact, I would say that giving everything is really, really hard, which is why Jesus says that the path of discipleship is narrow and hard, but the path to destruction is wide and easy. And so what we give is not a salvation issue, but it is a reflection of our faith journey and our spiritual maturity. If you are spiritually mature, or working towards it, then giving will have to be a part of it, and honestly, in my experience, the deeper you get into your faith, the easier it becomes.

And Paul reflects that because he tells the Corinthians that he is not commanding them to give. Instead, he says that he is “testing the genuineness of their love and the earnestness of others.” He says he wants them to excel in this as they excel in everything else, which might be an underhanded compliment when we compare it against what he says to them in chapter 13 in first Corinthians when he talks about love, when he talks about faith, speech and knowledge, and says if you excel in these but don’t have love, then you have nothing. And then, again, he compares it off against the giving of Christ, who became poor for our sake, so that we might become rich in the blessings of God. And then he reminds them, and us, that we are to give according to what we have, giving from abundance, rather than what we don’t have, giving from scarcity, or not giving but hoping. That is there are plenty of people, and I have included myself amongst them, who have said  that if we only made more money then I’d be able to tithe, but I just don’t make enough now to be able to do it. Or it’s like the prayer that people offer to God and say that people say that money changes people, but money would never change them, and if God would just let them win the lottery they would prove it. It’s just wishful thinking. Just as God cannot meet us where we want to be, but only where we are, we cannot give from what we want to have, or may have, but only from what we have, and viewing what we have as being enough. Again seeing things from a position of abundance, rather than a position of scarcity.

And while there are some who will tell you that you if you give, God will make you rich in return, the only people getting rich are the preachers making that proclamation. Now that doesn’t mean that there are not benefits for giving, because there are. The same is true in giving of yourself. Few people come back from a mission trip not feeling that they have been blessed and filled in truly meaningful ways. And so what we hear several times in scripture, including from Paul, is that you will reap what you sow. If you sow generously, you will reap generously, and if you sow sparingly you will reap sparingly. But, again, that is not a quid pro quo situation. You reap sparingly or generously because of what you have opened yourself up to. In the 23rd Psalm we hear that because of God that our cup overflows, and what we also hear at the beginning, in some more modern translations is not The Lord is no my shepherd I shall not want, but instead The Lord is my Shepard I have enough. And so if our cup is overflowing it’s giving out to the world. But how do we make room for even more blessings? By pouring out more. And if we are so concerned with keeping everything we have then we can never receive more. What we receive back is not about rewards for giving, but about our attitude and approach to the world. If we have an open heart and generosity then generosity and an open heart is returned. And if we are closed off and protective, then closed off and protective is returned.

Or let me put it this way. Since we have lost both our dogs in the past year, we’ve been talking about and thinking about the possibility of a new dog. We’re not ready yet, but we have gone to the shelter just to look. When you approach a strange dog, how do you approach them? What do you do with your hand? You go up with your hand open right, so they can smell it, and you’re indicating that you are not a threat to them. Now what would happen if you went up with a closed fist? The dog is going to see you as a threat and will be threatening in return, or simply try and get away. Giving does the same thing. When we approach the world with a closed fist, the world returns the same and we are not open to receiving God’s blessing. We are working too hard to try and hold on to what we have. But, when we approach the world with an open palm, with a position of generosity and maybe even extravagant generosity, then the world returns it because we have opened ourselves up to that reality.

And so we don’t have to give, but we need to give, and as I said in the stewardship letter that went out our need to give is greater than the church’s need to receive. And I know some people think I’m just blowing smoke when I say that, and let’s name the elephant in the room that you pay my salary, and so what you give goes towards that, but it’s the truth. We need to give for our own spiritual health, and more importantly, we get to give. As Paul says, he is not commanding the Corinthians to give, but he is giving them the opportunity to give. Just as the other churches begged to be able to participate and gave voluntarily, and generously of what they had. They gave from their abundant joy and extreme poverty. They gave according to what they had, not according to what they did not have. What they said and what we can say is that they could spend everything on themselves, or they could choose to hoard it all because they were worried about tomorrow and about what they would eat or drink or wear, but instead they chose not to. They choose instead to see what they had, regardless of the amount, as a bounty given to them by God and so they chose to give back a portion of that for furthering the Kingdom of God. which is the other part, is that we give through the church, or through other organizations as we are not the only place doing God’s work, in order to bring about the Kingdom.

And our giving cannot just be accidental. If we choose to give from what we have left over, then our giving will never be generous, let alone extravagantly generous. Our giving has to be intentional as an expression of our faith, as an expression of our blessings, and so what scripture calls for us to do is to give from our first fruits. That we give from the start and then do everything else we have to do, and when we do that then we begin to fundamentally rearrange our financial lives, our spiritual lives and our regular lives around being a blessing because we have been blessed, and we as the church then seek to do the same thing. To be good stewards of the resources with which we have been entrusted in order to give beyond these walls so that our community and the world will know that we are indeed Christ-centered, prayerful, inclusive, growing spiritually, compassionate and caring and in service and mission, which are our core values and what one person said is our vision for the future as well, that this is how we will be known.

And what I like to do every year is to let you know that Linda and I walk the walk that I am encouraging, and so we tithe off of our net pay, and so we will be submitting a card for a little more than $7500 for the coming year. Which is not where we want to be, and hopefully Linda’s health will improve and she may return to being able to work full-time and then our giving will increase, and that’s what an estimate of giving does is to recognize the realities of life, that perhaps we may be able to give more than what we estimate because we are blessed in ways that we didn’t know would happen, or we have to give less because other things happen, as happened with us in the past year in Linda being out of work for basically four months and then less than half time for the rest of the year, But we continued to give because we are called to give and know the importance of giving for ourselves, for our spiritual lives and for the life of the church and the other organizations we support. And our ultimate goal is to be able to tithe off of our net pay, and then be able to give a tithe plus other giving, which is also scriptural.

At the end of last week’s service, I quoted from the next chapter of 2nd Corinthians that we are to give not reluctantly or under compulsion, but to give as we have decided, but to know that God loves a cheerful giver. And the Greek word as cheerful is actually the word from which we get the word hilarious in English, or we might say it’s that sense of abundant joy, and we get there by seeing everything that we have received as a blessing from God, knowing that we shall not just not want, but that we have all we need, and that God will provide whether we worry about it or not, and that God will enrich us in every way so that we may be able to share in every good work, to be known for our extravagant generosity in offering the love of Christ to the world, so that, in the words of Paul, our very lives overflow with thanksgiving to God. and that we will give thanks to God for this indescribable gift. I pray that it will be so my brothers and sisters. Amen.

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