Saturday, January 30, 2021
iTunes is the worst platform...
Wednesday, January 27, 2021
Updates
I had my annual review with Rev. Craig Cockrell, who is our district superintendent, on Monday. We had a good conversation about what’s happening at the church and what the SPRC had reported in their review of me. He said that he does not expect that I would be asked to be moved this year, which is not surprising since both the SPRC and myself requested for me to stay in place, and we certainly hope to be here long beyond next year.
In other conference news that he passed on, they have set dates for Annual Conference, which is the annual gathering of United Methodist Churches in New Mexico and west Texas, for June. But, they have also set dates for October in case we still aren’t able to gather in person in June. The General Conference, which is the world-wide gathering of the United Methodist Church, which was postponed last year, is also scheduled for August and September, although they are talking about not being able to make those dates. No one really knows what that means. But, we are being told that we will get a new bishop this year regardless of what happens at the general church level.
On a local note, I hope that you have been enjoying the messages on our core values. It’s been interesting and exciting to try and flush out a portion of what those values mean to us and how we live them out. We will be building on them in some ways for our Lenten series as we look at some of the spiritual disciplines, which help connect us deeper in our relationship with God and become more Christ-centered. Of course Lent begins with Ash Wednesday, which is February 17, and we will have a service which will at least involve a call to Lenten discipleship, although I have no idea how we do the imposition of ashes.
I have some ideas for what we might do in worship after Easter, but I would also like your input. If there is a theme/topic, a book of the Bible or a particular passage you would like to have covered, or if there is something you think we as a church need to hear, I would like to know. You can simply send me an email, or in this Friday’s worship email there will be a survey that you can fill out and submit. I am going to a clergy retreat the second week of February, and one of my goals is to potentially map out worship for the rest of the year, with the caveat that it all might change depending on what is happening around us and in worship.
The One Board did give some further clarification as to when we might reopen in-person worship in their meeting last night. The standard now is to have 2 or fewer cases every day for 14 consecutive days, and then they will reconvene and make a final decision. Someone asked if we had 3 positive tests on the 14th day if that would mean we would have to start all over again? The answer was that the One Board will address the standard and what happens immediately after and make the decision we think is best for keeping everyone safe.
Finally, we have been working on ways to improve on worship streaming, which won’t end even when we are back in the sanctuary, and we have a proposal from an A/V company to do some upgrades, which the One Board also approved. We need to do some more due diligence on our end, but we hope to have those pieces in place in four weeks or so. The new set-up will allow us to have better sound, to have words projected into the stream, to see multiple angles and cuts during worship and to show videos during the stream as well. We know this will improve the experience for everyone, including me.
It’s been a strange year already, but we know that we are in
God’s hands and God is not through with us yet.
Monday, January 25, 2021
Core Values: Prayerful
For the past two weeks as we’ve been working our way through the core values that we have articulated as a congregation, we’ve been talking about our baptism and what happens as a result of being a baptized people. Now, if we had gone a little farther in the baptismal liturgy when we renewed our baptismal vows, we would have come to the membership vows which are that we will support this congregation with our prayers, presence, gifts, service and witness. As I have said before, I believe that prayer is at the top of that list because it is the most important, and start of all of the other vows. It is key to the development of our faith and our relationship with God, and it’s definitely important for it to be a core value for the congregation. But, before we get into that, let’s say our values together again. We are Christ-centered, prayerful, inclusive, growing spiritually, compassionate and caring and in service and mission. Now, just as prayer comes first for the membership vows, Christ-centered comes first for our values because it centers and directs everything else that we do. Buddhists pray, but their prayers are obviously not about Christ, or through Christ, and so when we talk about prayer it’s a particular type of prayer that we are discussing. It is Christ-centered prayer, and it’s not just individual prayer but also corporate prayer, what we do alone and what we do together, and all of those things are what make us prayerful. As we were talking about this as a core value it was that sense that we are going to bathe everything in prayer. That prayer will be a part of every gathering, that when we are seeking to make decisions that it will have prayer involved, that nearly everything we do will have prayer as a part of it.
Thursday, January 21, 2021
The Problem With Personality Cults
Wednesday, January 20, 2021
Core Values: Inclusive
Several years ago we were on vacation in the Denver area because we had gone to the mecca that is Ikea, and went to a local United Methodist church in the area. Now we are the ideal that most churches say that they want a family with young children, but as we walked in no one said anything to us, other than the ushers who gave us our bulletins and said welcome. We went into the sanctuary, and no one said anything to us. After worship we went into the coffee time because the girls wanted donuts, and no one said anything to us. And then as we were walking out, just before we got to the parking lot, someone finally said hello and stopped to talk to us and said they were new to the church but they really liked it because they were so friendly. And we just wanted to laugh because we had just witnessed the exact opposite. Now every church likes to say that they are welcoming, but if you’ve ever been to other churches you know that’s not true. There are some that do a good job, and some do an absolute terrible job, and some you can tell that they haven’t had a visitor since Jesus was a baby because they swarm all over you or are utterly shocked to see you. But, even excelling at welcoming people the first time they walk through the doors, doesn’t mean anything about how they might be welcomed and included into the community. As one youth who was LGBTQ said, “I don’t want to be welcomed, I want to be accepted.” And that is something radically different than being simply welcomed.
And so we continue in our series looking at the core values that we have established as a congregation. And so before we dive in, I’d like us to say them together again, so that hopefully they will become part of what we know. So we are Christ-centered, prayerful, inclusive, growing spiritually, compassionate and caring, and in service and mission. Last week we started with what it means to be Christ-centered, and if you didn’t hear that message, I would encourage you to go listen to it. But I said that while these values could be listed in nearly any order, I believe that Christ-centered had to come first because it is what flavors everything else. If we don’t do Christ-centered well, then we won’t do anything else well either. And, as I said, that journey of being Christ-centered begins when we are baptized and is firmly rooted in our claim as baptized people. And as it turns out, our claim of being inclusive is also rooted in our baptism. Now we have jumped ahead and are doing inclusive this week, rather than prayerful, since we are also celebrating the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., this weekend, and we should remember that he received his Ph.D. from Boston University, my alma matter, which is also a United Methodist school, and was also the first majority-white university to have an African-American dean of the chapel Howard Thurman, which was one of the reasons King went to BU, and Thurman was the one he introduced King to the idea of non-violent resistance as practiced by Gandhi.
A More Perfect Union
Saturday, January 16, 2021
Ridiculous DH Proposal
Thursday, January 14, 2021
Rich White Men Controlling Things
But, in case you are not aware, last year as the country was starting some sort of racial reckoning, athletes, and others, at Texas were doing the same. They were seeking to have buildings renamed after people who weren't racists and/or slaved holders. They also pointed out the racist background of the "Eyes of Texas," including that it came from minstrel shows with white students dressed in blackface to sing it.
And so many on the football team, who had the highest profile, objected to this history and the fact that they were forced to sing it after each home game. This past season many on the team refused to stay and sing it, and there were also many musicians in the band who said they would not play it. The administration’s answer was to play it over the loudspeakers, without the band present, and force the football team to stay out.
Now the answer given by the administration, think white men, was that the boosters, think rich white men, didn't have a problem with it and wanted it to continue. And so it was going to continue, whether the athletes liked it or not. In other words, rich white men were telling unpaid black men what to do, and that they had no say and should just be happy they get to play for Texas. Plus the school had put up a statue of the first black letterman for the university, so shouldn't that be enough? (And his name is Julius Whittier, and he earned that letter in 1970. Not 1950 or even 1960, but 1970!)
Now Sarkisian could have done a lot of things. The smartest probably would have been to say that he knows there are lots of feelings around the issue, and he was going to talk with his players, and the administration, before he said anything. Instead, he said the boosters, the rich white men paying his salary, wanted it played, and so he, a rich white man, was going to tell his players, those unpaid, largely black athletes, that he doesn't care about them or their feelings about a song with racist connotations and history because they have no power and they were going to "proudly" sing it.
I really hope that the athletes and the band and other students continue to tell the administration and the boosters that just because you are rich and white doesn't mean you get to do what you want anymore. That's the way the world has worked, but that time is coming to an end, and it's all of these little battles, and the big ones, that will make a difference.
Wednesday, January 13, 2021
Words Matter
The Gospel of John begins, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” (John 1:1) That Word, of course, was Jesus, the incarnation, the Word made flesh. What that passage should also tell us is that words matter. If Jesus is the word, then words have to matter, because it means that words can change and transform the world.
In the past week we have seen the power of words. Two athletes have been caught on mics saying words that are slurs to different groups. One of them apologized and said that’s not who he is. And the other than issued a statement saying she was sorry to anyone who was offended, which is not actually an apology at all. And then of course there is what has happened in Washington, DC.
Words matter. In his letter, James says “How great a forest is set ablaze by small fire. And the tongue is a fire.” (James 3:5b-6) Earlier he had also said, “If any think they are religious and do not bridle their tongues… their religion is worthless.” I could also quote from 1 Peter, “Whoever speaks must do so as one speaking the very words of God.” (1 Peter 4:11a) Our words matter.
And then of course we could also quote Jesus who says that it is what comes out of the mouth that defiles us, because what comes out of our mouths reveals what’s in our heart. Which is why the first athlete saying that using the slur is not who he is, is a little disingenuous because he said it, and that says something. Now do we make mistakes in our speaking? Yes, and there is room for grace, for learning and also repentance.
I received an email this morning from the writer of a daily devotion that I read for a mistake he made yesterday, totally unconsciously, that referenced schizophrenics as being close-minded bigots. That was not what he intended or meant, but it is what he said. Many people pointed this out to him and he is using this as a learning experience to see where he may have biases of which he was not aware, and to correct them.
There
is a statement, in different forms, that has been attributed to lots of people
that originally came from Bishop Beckwith in 1885 that says:
Plant a thought and reap a word;
plant a word and reap an action;
plant an action and reap a habit;
plant a habit and reap a character;
plant a character and reap a destiny.
Or as Paul says in his letter to the Galatians “you reap what you sow” (6:7) Words matter.
But it’s not just what we say, it’s also what is planted in us. If we surround ourselves with people who are proclaiming hate and animosity, discord and conflict, bitterness and revenge, violence and lawlessness, slurs and insults, rage and lies, those things will take root in us and that is what we too will think, say and act upon.
In addition to all that happened last week, it was also the 10 year anniversary of the assassination attempt on Rep. Gabby Giffords in Tucson. An act that killed six people, including a US district judge and a 9-year-old who had been born on September 11. An act that was also likely born through extremist rhetoric.
Words matter. The words we hear matter. The words we say matter. And we cannot pretend otherwise. God said let there be light, and there was light. Words create, words challenge, words form, words corrupt, words make realities and words become flesh. If all we ever hear are words of hate or fear or rage or animosity or wrath, then we are swimming in a toxic pool which can only corrupt us and fill us with the poison that surrounds us.
The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said “When evil people plot, good people plan. When evil people burn and bomb, good people must build and bind. When evil people shout ugly words of hatred, good people commit themselves to the glories of love.” He also said, “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”
Words can inspire and words can tear down. Words
can build up and words can destroy. Words can offer love and words can offer
hate. Words can offer hope and words can bring despair. The words we use
reflect the values we hold dear. May the words we use, may the
words with which we surround ourselves, reflect the better angels of our
natures, and may they always seek to bring healing and wholeness, love and
belonging, not just for us, but for the world.
Tuesday, January 12, 2021
Twitter Doesn't Owe You Anything
Monday, January 11, 2021
Core Values: Christ-Centered
Now I say all this for several reasons. One of them being that when I lead confirmation classes for youth, one of the first questions I ask is what does it mean to be a Christian? They will talk about things we might believe, or things we are supposed to do, or about going to church, sort of generic things. But, what they never say, until I get more direct, is that being a Christian means following Christ, or worshipping Christ, or proclaiming Christ as the Messiah, the son of the living God. We might think that’s sort of basic, of what it means to be a Christian and yet it doesn’t seem to be for many people. That when they answer the question about Christianity, following Christ is not the first answer given.
Sunday, January 10, 2021
Stop It With Tom Brady
Wednesday, January 6, 2021
New Year
One of my plans for last year was to focus on reading books I had purchased, rather than getting new books from the library. But, even with the library being closed since March, that didn’t really happen. According to Goodreads, I read 128 books, or 37,910 pages. The shortest book was only 27 pages and was about Junia, a female apostle named in Romans, and the longest was Ron Chernow’s biography on Grant at 1,074 (I was reading that when I had shingles, which wasn’t the easiest thing to do). This year I want to try and tackle my “to read” list of things that sounded interesting when I encountered them, but wasn’t going to read at the time. That’s part of a resolution.
Another resolution I had when I was appointed to Los Alamos was to become involved in the community. Last year I was approached about serving on several different boards, and the one I accepted was for the library, where I was just elected chair. I’m not sure what all that entails but I will find out as we go along.
If you are still thinking about things to do in this new year, on Sunday I said that besides for deepening our faith lives, and our relationship with the church, we should also work to deepen our relationship with our community. And while there are many ways to do that, might I also suggest joining me in serving on a county board? There are several immediate openings or those coming up, including for Art in Public Places, Historic Preservation, Public Health, and Personnel, to name a few. You can find more information on the county website
I don’t know what this year will bring for us, but I am excited about the possibilities. As I always say, the best year this congregation has ever had is not in the past, its next year. And it takes all of us to bring that about. I look forward to this year and working with all of you to do the things that God has planned for us, some known, and some unknown, so that we will continue to be God’s love in action.
Monday, January 4, 2021
By A Different Road
Of course the church is not necessarily the best place to be talking about trying new things, not just because new things tend to be resisted by many people, but even more because the church itself likes to keep things the same. As Tevye says, it’s that whole tradition thing, although we should celebrate that we definitely changed up our routines and the way we do things this year. But, the fact that we celebrate the same things every year, the fact that there are traditions we do hold onto, can make change hard. And so we find ourselves today, just like this time last year, celebrating Epiphany which is the arrival of the wise men who come to see and worship Jesus. The actual celebration of Epiphany is January 6, as today is only the tenth day of Christmas, but we celebrate epiphany today since I don’t figure most of you would be here for worship on the 6th, plus the fact that the 6th is the anniversary of Linda and my first date and so she wouldn’t be really happy with me if I was to be here.
Friday, January 1, 2021
Books I Read in 2020
- 32 Yolks: From my Mother's Table to Working the Line by Eric Ripert
- A Spirituality of Fundraising by Henri Nouwen
- A Time to Kill by John Grisham
- A Very Stable Genius: Donald J. Trump's Testing of America by Philip Rucker and Carol Leonnig
- A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle
- Aftermath: Empire's End by Chuck Wendig
- Aftermath: Life Debt by Chuck Wendig
- Alone on the Ice: The Greatest Survival Story in the History of Exploration by David Roberts
- America's Original Sin: Racism, White Privilege, and the Bridge to a New America by Jim Wallis
- American Nations: A History of the Eleven Rival Regional Cultures of North America by Colin Woodard
- And God Said: How Translations Conceal the Bible's Original Meaning by Joel M. Hoffman
- Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
- Between the world of Ta-Nehisi Coates and Christianity edited by David Evans and Peter Dula
- Birth of the Kingdom by Jan Guillou
- Blood Brothers: The Story of the Strange Friendship Between Sitting Bull and Buffalo Bill by Deanne Stillman
- Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson
- Camino Winds by John Grisham
- Campaigning with Crook by Charles King
- Catch and Kill: Lies, Spies and a Conspiracy to Protect Predators by Ronan Farrow
- City of Fire: Los Alamos & the Birth of the Atomic Age 1943-45 by James W. Kunetka
- Clear and Present Danger by Tom Clancy
- Dear Church: A Love Letter from a Black Preacher to the Whitest Denomination in the US by Lenny Duncan
- Death of the Liberal Class by Chris Hedges
- Dust Bowl Girls: The Inspiring Story of the Team That Barnstormed Its Way to Basketball Glory by Lydia Reeder
- Embracing the Wideness by Kenneth H. Carter, Jr.
- Evil: The Science Behind Humanity's Dark Side by Julia Shaw
- Finding Everett Ruess by David Roberts
- Finding God Beyond Religion: A Guide for Skeptics, Agnostics and Unorthodox Believers Inside and Outside the Church by Tom Stella
- For the Love of Men: A New Vision for Mindful Masculinity by Liz Plank
- Furious Hours: Murder, Fraud and the Last Trial of Harper Lee by Casey Cep
- Genesis: A Living Conversation by Bill Moyers
- Ghosts of Harvard by Francesca Serritella
- Glittering Vices: A New Look at the Seven Deadly Sins by Rebecca Konyndyk DeYoung
- Glory of Their Spirit: How Four Black Women Took On the Army During World War II by Sandra M. Bolzenius
- God is Not...: Religious, Nice, "One of Us", an American a Capitalist edited by D. Brent Laytham
- Grant by Ron Chernow
- Hedy's Folly: The Life and Breakthrough Inventions of Hedy Lamarr, the Most Beautiful Woman in the World by Richard Rhodes
- Helen Keller: A Life by Dorothy Herman
- Holy Disunity: How What Separates Us Can Save Us by Layton E. Williams
- How to Lead When You Don't Know Where You're Going: Leading in a Liminal Season by Susan Beaumont
- How to Retire the Cheapskate Way by Jeff Yeager
- I Am a Man: Chief Standing Bear's Journey for Justice by Joe Starita
- I Am C-3PO: The Inside Story by Anthony Daniels
- It's Better Than it Looks: Reasons for Optimism in an Age of Fear by Gregg Easterbrook
- Jimmy Stewart: The Truth Behind the Legend by Michael Munn
- Junia is Not Alone by Scot McKnight
- Jurassic Park by Michael Crichton
- K2: Life and Death on the World's Most Dangerous Mountain by Ed Viesturs
- Killers of the Flower Moon: The Osage Murders and the Birth of the FBI by David Grann
- Let Him Go by Larry Watson
- Limits of the Known by David Roberts
- Living Our Beliefs: The United Methodist Way by Kenneth L. Carder
- Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness by Sharon Salzberg
- Mary Poppins by P.L. Travers
- Motherhood So White: A Memoir of Race, Gender and Parenting in America by Nefertiti Austin
- Neighborhood Church: Transforming Your Congregation into a Powerhouse for Mission by Krin Van Tatenhove
- No Shortcuts to the Top: Climbing the World's 14 Highest Peaks by Ed Viesturs and David Roberts
- Notorious RBG: The Life and Times of Ruth Bader Ginsburg by Irin Carmon and Shana Knizhnik
- On the Come Up by Angie Thomas
- Once They Moved Like The Wind: Cochise, Geronimo, And The Apache Wars by David Roberts
- Orange is the New Black: My Year Inside a Woman's Prison by Piper Kerman
- Prayer and the Devotional Life of United Methodists by Steve Harper
- Putting God Second: How to Save Religion from Itself by Rabbi Donniel Hartman
- Ready Player Two by Ernest Cline
- Reimagining the Seven Deadly Sins: Reshaping Our Hearts in a Complex World by James Philipps
- Resistance Reborn by Rebecca Roanhorse
- Separated: Inside an American Tragedy by Jacob Soboroff
- Sermon on the Mount by Amy-Jill Levine
- Seven: The Deadly Sins and the Beatitudes by Jeff Cook
- She Said: Breaking the Sexual Harassment Story That Helped Ignite a Movement by Jodi Kantor and Megan Twohey
- Sinning Like a Christian: A New Look at the Seven Deadly Sins by William H. Willimon
- St. Paul: The Apostle We Love to Hate by Karen Armstrong
- Stakes Is High: Life After the American Dream by Mychal Denzel Smith
- Sum of All Fears by Tom Clancy
- Ten Days in a Mad House by Nellie Bly
- Ten Days a Madwoman: The Daring Life and Turbulent Times of the Original "Girl" Reporter, Nellie Bly by Deborah Noyes
- The 19: Questions to Kindle a Wesleyan Spirit by Carolyn C. Moore
- The Activists Tao Te Ching by William Martin
- The Andromeda Evolution by Daniel H. Wilson
- The Art of Community: Seven Principles for Belonging by Charles Vogl
- The Big Sort: Why the Clustering of Like-Minded America is Tearing Us Apart by Bill Bishop
- The Book of Genesis: A Biography by Ronald Hendel
- The Books That Changed My Life: Reflections by 100 Authors, Actors, Musicians, and Other Remarkable People edited by Bethanne Patrick
- The Call of the Wild by Jack London
- The Cardinal of the Kremlin by Tom Clancy
- The Color of Law: A Forgotten History of How Our Government Segregated America by Richard Rothstein
- The Coming Revolution in Church Economics: Why Tithes and Offerings Are No Longer Enough, and What You Can Do about It by Mark DeYmaz and Harry Li
- The Defender: How the Legendary Black Newspaper Changed America by Ethan Michaeli
- The End of Christendom and the Future of Christianity by Douglas John Hall
- The End of Policing by Alex S. Vitale
- The Future of the Race by Henry Louis Gates, Jr. and Cornell West
- The Great Influenza: The Story of the Deadliest Pandemic in History by John M. Barry
- The Great Inversion and the Future of the American City by Alan Ehrenhalt
- The Guns of August by Barbara W. Tauchman
- The Hare with Amber Eyes: A Family's Century of Art and Loss by Edmund de Waal
- The Hate You Give by Angie Thomas
- The Knight Templar by Jan Guillou
- The Last Pastor: Faithfully Steering a Closing Church by Gail Cafferata
- The Nickel Boys by Colson Whitehead
- The Paranoid Style in American Politics by Richard Hofstadter
- The Particle at the End of the Universe: How the Hunt for the Higgs Boson Leads Us to the Edge of a New World by Sean Carroll
- The Path Between the Seas: The Creation of the Panama Canal, 1870-1914 by David McCullough
- The Post-Quarantine Church by Thom S. Rainer
- The Professor and the Parson: A Story of Desire, Deceit and Defrocking by Adam Sisman
- The Pueblo Revolt: The Secret Rebellion that Drove the Spaniards Out of the Southwest by David Roberts
- The Refugees by Viet Thanh Nguyen
- The Road to Jerusalem by Jan Guillou
- The Science of Sin: The Psychology of the Seven Deadlies by Simon M. Laham
- The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life by David Brooks
- The Secret History of Wonder Woman by Jill Lepore
- The Sermon Without End: A Conversational Approach to Preaching by O. Wesley Allen and Ronald J. Allen
- The Spirituals and the Blues by James Cone
- The Testaments by Margaret Atwood
- The Woman Who Stole Vermeer: The True Story of Rose Dugdale and the Russborough House Art Heist by Anthony M. Amore
- The Year of Fear: Machine Gun Kelly and the Manhunt that Changed the Nation by Joe Urschel
- Thrawn Ascendancy: Chaos Rising by Timothy Zahn
- Too Much and Never Enough: How My Family Created the World's Most Dangerous Man by Mary L. Trump
- Traveling the Prayer Paths of Jesus by John Indermark
- Travels by Michael Crichton
- Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging by Sebastian Junger
- TrumpNation: The Art of Being the Donald by Timothy L. O'Brien
- Twilight of Democracy: The Seductive Lure of Authoritarianism by Anne Applebaum
- Uncommon Type: Some Stories by Tom Hanks
- Virus as a Summons to Faith: Biblical Reflections in a Time of Loss, Grief, and Uncertainty by Walter Brueggemann
- When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
- Without Remorse by Tom Clancy
- Writing to Save a Life: The Louis Till File by John Edgar Wideman
- You'd Better Not Die or I'll Kill You: A Caregiver's Survival Guide to Keeping You in Good Health and Good Spirits by Jane Heller