I couldn’t find a count as to exactly how many proverbs are actually contained in the book of Proverbs, nor did I take the time to count them myself, although most sources put it between 800 and 900, but there are around 150 proverbs that deal with anger and words and the mouth. Outside of the Proverbs that talk about wisdom or folly, this has to be close to the most of any theme found in Proverbs, of which we only heard a small sampling of them in this morning’s readings, but I hope it was enough to begin to give you a feel for what these proverbs sound like.
Monday, January 31, 2022
Words Like Swords
Monday, August 16, 2021
Nix the Negative
In a study done with six-month-olds, they were shown a round piece of wood that had eyes glued onto it and it was struggling to climb up a felt mountain. After seeing the circle struggling, a triangle piece of wood, also with eyes glued on it, came along and tried to help push the circle to the top. But then along comes a square piece of wood, with eyes, that tries to push the triangle and the circle down so they can’t make it to the top. What experimenters wanted to know was how the infants would respond, and while they couldn’t verbalize how they felt about the pieces of wood, they could express it by which blocks they played with, and which do you think they refused to play with? The square. The block that wasn’t kind. They even introduced a neutral observer block who did nothing to hinder or help, and the children still preferred the triangle to the others. So, even before we know what’s happening, we have a natural preference for those who help and are kind over those who are unkind. And what scans of the brain have also found is that when we participate in acts of kindness that the pleasure centers of our brain are activated, and so kindness in and of itself can be its own reward. And so with that we continue in our series on the Kindness Challenge, which is based upon a book of the same name by Shaunti Feldhahn.
Wednesday, January 13, 2021
Words Matter
The Gospel of John begins, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” (John 1:1) That Word, of course, was Jesus, the incarnation, the Word made flesh. What that passage should also tell us is that words matter. If Jesus is the word, then words have to matter, because it means that words can change and transform the world.
In the past week we have seen the power of words. Two athletes have been caught on mics saying words that are slurs to different groups. One of them apologized and said that’s not who he is. And the other than issued a statement saying she was sorry to anyone who was offended, which is not actually an apology at all. And then of course there is what has happened in Washington, DC.
Words matter. In his letter, James says “How great a forest is set ablaze by small fire. And the tongue is a fire.” (James 3:5b-6) Earlier he had also said, “If any think they are religious and do not bridle their tongues… their religion is worthless.” I could also quote from 1 Peter, “Whoever speaks must do so as one speaking the very words of God.” (1 Peter 4:11a) Our words matter.
And then of course we could also quote Jesus who says that it is what comes out of the mouth that defiles us, because what comes out of our mouths reveals what’s in our heart. Which is why the first athlete saying that using the slur is not who he is, is a little disingenuous because he said it, and that says something. Now do we make mistakes in our speaking? Yes, and there is room for grace, for learning and also repentance.
I received an email this morning from the writer of a daily devotion that I read for a mistake he made yesterday, totally unconsciously, that referenced schizophrenics as being close-minded bigots. That was not what he intended or meant, but it is what he said. Many people pointed this out to him and he is using this as a learning experience to see where he may have biases of which he was not aware, and to correct them.
There
is a statement, in different forms, that has been attributed to lots of people
that originally came from Bishop Beckwith in 1885 that says:
Plant a thought and reap a word;
plant a word and reap an action;
plant an action and reap a habit;
plant a habit and reap a character;
plant a character and reap a destiny.
Or as Paul says in his letter to the Galatians “you reap what you sow” (6:7) Words matter.
But it’s not just what we say, it’s also what is planted in us. If we surround ourselves with people who are proclaiming hate and animosity, discord and conflict, bitterness and revenge, violence and lawlessness, slurs and insults, rage and lies, those things will take root in us and that is what we too will think, say and act upon.
In addition to all that happened last week, it was also the 10 year anniversary of the assassination attempt on Rep. Gabby Giffords in Tucson. An act that killed six people, including a US district judge and a 9-year-old who had been born on September 11. An act that was also likely born through extremist rhetoric.
Words matter. The words we hear matter. The words we say matter. And we cannot pretend otherwise. God said let there be light, and there was light. Words create, words challenge, words form, words corrupt, words make realities and words become flesh. If all we ever hear are words of hate or fear or rage or animosity or wrath, then we are swimming in a toxic pool which can only corrupt us and fill us with the poison that surrounds us.
The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said “When evil people plot, good people plan. When evil people burn and bomb, good people must build and bind. When evil people shout ugly words of hatred, good people commit themselves to the glories of love.” He also said, “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”
Words can inspire and words can tear down. Words
can build up and words can destroy. Words can offer love and words can offer
hate. Words can offer hope and words can bring despair. The words we use
reflect the values we hold dear. May the words we use, may the
words with which we surround ourselves, reflect the better angels of our
natures, and may they always seek to bring healing and wholeness, love and
belonging, not just for us, but for the world.
Monday, August 28, 2017
Proverbs: Words Like A Sword
I can be an angry driver. Not like cutting people off and then slamming my brakes angry, but calling people not nice names, or responding to things they do. So, for example, the other day a woman decided to make a turn in front of me, when I clearly had the right of way, and so I hit my brakes and honked at her. She in turn hit her horn, as if I was the problem, and flipped me off, and so I returned then gesture and then quickly thought “I hope that’s not a member of the church.” Now the positive side of this is that the girls are learning the rules of driving, because when I say something like “what are you doing idiot?” they will ask me what the other person did, and then I explain how what they did was wrong. Or at least the positive parts is the story I tell myself. Of course, the things I yell at the tv, especially when the Yankees are playing can be even worse. But, the problem is that by saying the things I do, and reacting the way I do, I am also teaching them many negative things as well, and some of the things that we are told not to do in scripture, and in particular in the book of Proverbs, and so we continue in our series on Proverbs looking at anger and the power of the words we use.
Now we may say that sticks and stones may break our bones but words will never hurt us, and even though that rhymes and therefore has the ring of truth to it, we know that it’s not true. That, in fact, words not only can hurt, but they do hurt, and can do considerable damage to us and to others. Words are powerful things, and we should understand this as Christians because we know that words matter, that they can make a difference, that they can change the entire world because we proclaim that Jesus was the word made flesh. The Word made flesh, and so words matter, but how much attention do we really pay to the words we use, the words we say, how we say them, or even the thought process that goes behind them, even if we don’t say them. Do we understand the power they can hold over us and over others?
Sunday, May 7, 2017
In the Breaking of Bread
In the Protestant tradition, we have two things which we consider to be sacraments, baptism and communion. This stands in contrast to the seven sacraments in the Roman Catholic and the Orthodox traditions. During the protestant reformation, the seven were narrowed down to two because these are both things that Jesus commanded that we do and also things in which Jesus also participated. And what we see in scripture is that the early church continued and participated in both of these things from the earliest days, and so in today’s scripture readings we find both of them, or at least a form of them, taking place. The first is Peter’s call to baptism in which 3000 people are baptized, which makes me think about the logistics of baptizing 3000 people in one day, and while we never are actually told that the disciples are ever baptized, we presume that they were, maybe by John the Baptist, or perhaps by Jesus, but this becomes an important and identifying aspect of the early church that obviously continues through to today. And then we have Jesus implement the practice of communion on his last night with the disciples, which we know from the writings of Paul continued to be a significant act in the early church, and we have at least a part of a communion meal in today’s passage from Luke.
Even though we are now several weeks past Easter, in today’s passage we find ourselves back on Easter morning, with two followers of Jesus who are traveling out to the town of Emmaus which is said to be some seven miles from Jerusalem, although some manuscript traditions say 19 miles, although where the town is, is unknown because there is no record of a town by that name, although there is much speculation of where it might have been. But, it’s entirely possible, and we’ll return to this idea, that we’re not supposed to know, that it’s supposed to be sort of any town, a generic town, one that is meant to represent our town, or a place where we can put ourselves in the role of making this journey. But regardless of where it is, on Easter morning, they have heard that Jesus’ body was not there, and that the women, or at the very least Mary, have encountered the risen Christ, but, like the other disciples, they don’t appear to believe it yet. They’ve heard it but have not processed it, have not accepted it, it has not taken root in their hearts and mind. And so, they set out going home and as they are making their way, they are discussing the events, although the Greek word used here could also be translated as arguing, when Jesus appears before them. Except, like in other versions of the resurrection story, they don’t know that it is Jesus.
Monday, January 2, 2017
Which Way Do We Go?
Well another new year has begun. For some, 2017 may be better than 2016, and for others it may be worse, but what the future holds is totally unknown. As they say, hindsight is 20/20, but we don’t have the same effectiveness in gauging what is to come, otherwise we all would have put money on the Cubs to win the world series. And yet we try and make guesses about the future all the time. People are claiming who is going to win the super bowl, people saying Trump will be the best president ever and others saying the worst ever, some saying that the Red Sox will never win another world series title, that’s me, although it’s more hope than prediction, some predicting economic collapse, and they have predicted 20 of the last 2 recessions, and some are predicting huge economic growth. And for what applies to the church, some predicting who will go to heaven, and who might go somewhere else. It’s that last prediction that we seek to tackle today based on the passage we just heard from Matthew, known as the Parable of the Sheep and the Goats.
If you’ve been attending here for a while, you have heard me say before that I think the question many Christians use to try and bring others to the faith, which is “if you were to die tonight, do you know where you would go?” is an awful question. It’s awful for several reasons, one them being that it makes an affirmation of faith all about fear, not about trust or love, and that’s not a good place to start in any relationship, let alone a relationship with God. But more importantly it’s a bad question because the proper answer is “No, and neither do you.” Of course, that is not what the people asking the question think, but I believe that is the appropriate answer because of what Jesus tells us in this passage. This is the only scripture passage in which Jesus talks about a final judgment, the only one that says anything about how a decision of which way people might go is made. The only one. That may seem surprising based on how much emphasis that some in the church put onto the issue of the afterlife, but we should remember that Jesus’ message was always much more about life here and now, about God’s kingdom here and now, then it was about some time to come. That doesn’t mean those things are unimportant, and this parable does deal with that and, for me at least, it is always one of those passages that leaves me not only a little uneasy, because I’m never sure if I am reading it and interpreting it the right way, and if I am I’m always happy and deeply disturbed at the same time with the conclusion.
Tuesday, February 9, 2016
Getting Close To God
We start today with a confession. This week we will celebrate Ash Wednesday, although perhaps celebrate is the wrong word to use, but in the Christian calendar the last Sunday before Ash Wednesday is known as Transfiguration Sunday, the day in which we hear one of the accounts of Jesus’ transfiguration on the mountain with three disciples. A few weeks ago as I was doing worship planning, I wasn’t really thinking about this being the last Sunday before Lent, and so turned to the lectionary readings for today, and said, “Oh man, I don’t want to preach on the transfiguration again this year.” While nowhere near as significant for most people, this story is sort of like Christmas and Easter in that it comes around every single year and we preachers get to a point and think, “what can I possibly say about this that hasn’t already been said.” So my intention was to ignore Jesus on the mountain and instead talk about Moses on the mountain, which is also one of the traditional readings for today. But as I began to think about it more and more, I found myself seeing the connections and similarities between these two stories, and because God has a sense of humor, found myself coming back to preaching about the transfiguration, while at the same time trying to ignore it, because what I felt a pull towards in these two stories was not really what happens on the mountaintop, but instead what happens afterwards.
Moses has been up on the mountain talking with God, want to guess for how many days? 40. And he comes down with the two tablets with the ten commandments in his hands. This is actually the second set of tablets because he had shattered the first set he was given when he came down off the mountain and found that the people had constructed a golden calf and were worshipping it. So Moses goes and meets with God again and comes down with a new set, which are the ones that end up in the Ark of the Covenant which makes Indiana Jones necessary. But, when he comes off the mountain this time, in addition to the tablets, Moses’ face is also glowing from being in the presence of God, and the people are afraid to come near him, so Moses ends up putting a veil on his face, not to protect the people from what they see, but in order to try and quell their fear about what it means. To put a distance between them and the presence of God. Moses takes of the veil when he is with God, but then puts it on when he is with the people. As an aside, when this passage was translated into Latin for the Vulgate, which is the Latin Bible, Jerome translated the word glows as horns, which is not really as strange as it may sound based on the Hebrew here, but that’s why sometimes you’ll see Moses as being portrayed with horns on his head, Michelangelo.
Monday, December 21, 2015
Jesus' Wish List
Several years ago, Jimmy Kimmel asked the viewers of his late night show to prank their children and to tell them they could open one present they had gotten for Christmas a few weeks early, but rather than giving them something they wanted, to instead give them something they wouldn’t want. People did and posted it on YouTube with the message “hey Jimmy Kimmel, I gave my kids a terrible present.” Take a look at some of these gifts… I can’t decide whether Jimmy Kimmel is a genius in exposing some of our thoughts about Christmas or if instead he is going straight to hell. I think the kids subjected to this, especially the little boy who thinks it’s the worst Christmas ever, definitely are going with the second of the options. We find it funny not only because of the reactions from the kids, but the sort of uncomfortableness we feel that this is what Christmas is, and what it seems to be about, getting presents.
Today, the fourth Sunday of Advent, concludes our sermon series which has actually been entitled Christmas is Not Your Birthday. We act like it’s our birthday, and I’m not obviously talking about if December 25th is your actual birthday. Be we think it’s about giving gifts and getting gifts, especially for kids, and especially for stores. When people talk about rethinking Christmas and perhaps shopping less, one of the things that comes up is that we are told that stores are dependent upon Christmas sales for their very existence. That’s one of the reasons black Friday is named what it is, because it’s the first time that many of them have gone into the black. But is that really our duty and obligation as Christians, to make sure that we shop enough, go into debt enough, as they say to buy presents we don’t need with money we don’t have, in order to keep the economy going?
Now this year I haven’t really talked about practicing Christmas differently as I have in years past, and perhaps that is the reason that this year no one has accused me of not liking Christmas, of wanting to suck all the fun out of Christmas as people have done in year’s past. But nothing could be further from the truth. I love Christmas, and I believe we can love Christmas, and everything that goes along with it, including giving and getting gifts, and still think that perhaps we are missing something, that maybe there could be something which could connect us to the season just a little bit more. Or, as the Grinch comes to realize, “maybe Christmas doesn’t come from a store, maybe Christmas, perhaps, means just a little bit more.” And so today we conclude our Advent sermon series by looking at Jesus’ wish list. Which might be part of what we can get out of Jimmy Kimmel torturing young children for our amusement, is that we ask children and each other what they want for Christmas. But even when we claim that we want to keep Christ in Christmas and that Jesus is the reason for the season, and that rhymes so it has to be true, have we ever actually asked the question “What does Jesus want for his birthday?”
Monday, August 17, 2015
James: Faith and Works
Today we conclude our series on the book of James, and I hope that you have enjoyed, or at least appreciated, hearing from James. But even if you haven’t, I have enjoyed exploring James, and sometimes that’s the benefit of being the person who controls what gets preached. I’ve always liked James, but had never done anything on the letter, and the more I have read and studied James over the past few months, the more I have come to enjoy James and to also realize that even in our 7 weeks on this letter, that we have really only begun to touch the surface of what James actually has to say to us. But today we close with what has become one of James’ most famous passages, and the one that nearly got him banned from the Bible, and has gotten him banned from many Protestant pulpits and that is his claim that faith without works is dead.
This got James banned largely because of the influence of Martin Luther, the father of the Protestant reformation, whose distinctive moto about salvation was sola fides, by faith alone. That is that it is faith that saves us not anything else. Now the background of this is rooted in Roman Catholic theology and the idea of works righteousness, which says that doing good works in the world, will sort of earn us bonus points towards our salvation, sort of like doing extra credit work at school. You might have a B+ on your regular assignments, but doing that one extra credit piece maybe will shift you up to an A-, and then your parents and God are happy and no one gets into trouble. At the time of Luther, however, it was more than just about good works, because doing pilgrimages could count for this, as could the buying of penance, that is paying the church to have them issue you forgiveness for your sins, or for others sins, to buy years off of your time in purgatory. And that doesn’t really even begin to delve into the depths of the what and the why. But Luther said all of that was worthless, or saying that it had gotten way out of control is probably a better summation, and he said that it is not what we do that earns us salvation, it is God and faith alone that saves us. So from that we have sort of come up with a battle of works versus faith.
Monday, July 27, 2015
James: The War Within
One of the things that I find remarkable about the stories of the faith that we find in scripture is that they don’t whitewash the stories, or try and hide the skeletons in the closet. They are right out there for all to see. And this isn’t just for minor characters, or those who just appear so that bad things can happen so we can learn a lesson, like Ananias and Saphira who are struck dead when they lie about their money to the apostles, you can find the story in chapter 5 of Acts. It’s like when an African-American character suddenly shows up in a horror movie, you know they are about to die. Those are the ones you sort of expect to find. It’s easy to say bad things about people no one cares about, but that’s not what happens in scripture. It’s the biggies that get exposed. The disciples, and Peter in particular, are constantly being shown that they don’t get it, and they are not alone. Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Solomon, the biggies, they all have stories told about them in which they do questionable things, and then of course there is David.
That story we heard today of he and Bathsheba is something you might not expect to have recorded and passed on, or if it was perhaps it would be just a sort of an aside that maybe got lost over time and so perhaps there would be some comment about Bathsheba or Uriah, of which we would have no idea what it would mean. There are certainly some examples of that in the Bible, and the farther we get away the easier it is for it to drift from memory. To mention a somewhat similar situation, if we were to talk about Monica Lewinski, for an entire generation that would mean nothing. Of course they could google it and get more than they ever wanted to know.
Tuesday, July 21, 2015
James: Patience, Suffering and Temptation
When I met my wife Linda, she had a black lab, Vivian, and Vivi was really smart. All you had to do was show her, or tell her, one time what you wanted her to do and normally she would pick it up right then. That was a smart dog. I’ve had some other smart dogs, but the dog we have now, Yogi, is not in that category. And this isn’t just that he’s being ornery or stubborn, he’s just not that smart. And to make it worse, he is part terrier and possibly some beagle, and so he likes to get his nose going and then just go. So if given the chance, whether it’s the door being left open just a bit, or if he can find any way out of the backyard, he’s going to take the opportunity and take off and run as far and as fast as he can, until he’s picked up by the dog catcher and he ends up in doggy prison.
Now if Yogi was human, or perhaps if he was a little smarter, he might try and give some rationalization for what he was doing and why he ended up in trouble, because that’s what we try and do. Perhaps he might try and blame the devil, with the proverbial “the devil made me do it” excuse. No personal culpability. Everyone else is responsible except for him, not even for giving in to the temptation. Or he might even argue that the temptation was put there simply in order to try and bring him down because of who he is, and so not only is he not weak, it’s because he is so strong and so good that it even happened. He is suffering unjustly. Or he might even say, and we certainly hear this all the time, that it’s God who led him to this point, either to tempt him to see what he will do, or even worse in my opinion, is to say that God has led him to this, and not just led them to it, but actually pushed him through the door to run for all he is worth and to doggy prison, but that God will get him through it. It’s that whole, “God doesn’t give us anything that we can’t handle” cliché. But regardless of what excuse is used for temptation and suffering, they all take patience, and for me with Yogi it takes patience for me so that I don’t try and kill him. But what James tells us today is that all of this is wrong, and the truth is we simply don’t understand what’s actually going on.
Tuesday, July 14, 2015
James: The Royal Law
On January 11, 2007, Joshua Bell, who is world renowned and Grammy award winning violinist, performed to a sold out crowd in Boston’s Symphony Hall. The lowest priced tickets started at $100 apiece. But just two days later Bell performed a concert for free, but in an unexpected place. In a situation arranged by the Washington Post as a social experiment, Bell stationed himself in the L’Enfant Metro Station in Washington, DC during the morning rush hour, and began playing one of Bach’s most difficult and stirring violin concertos. Bell played for 45 minutes using the same violin he always plays, a Stradivarius, constructed in 1713 during the master’s golden period and valued at more than 3.5 million dollars. Of the 1,097 people who passed by during his concert, 27 games him some money, but only 7 stopped to listen. He ended his concert without any applause, collecting a grand total of $32.17 in tips, which included $20 from the one person who seemed to recognize who he actually was.
So more than 1000 people witnessed one of the world’s greatest musicians playing one of the world’s greatest masterpieces on one of the world’s greatest instruments and had no idea what they were actually seeing, and so because of that they didn’t stop. They made a quick decision about the type of musicians who play in subway stations and so just completely ignored it; he wasn’t worth their time, they had more important things to do. How often do we make the same sorts of decisions, the same sorts of judgements that in the end turn out to be so very, very wrong, if we ever even know at all?
Today we continue in our sermon series on the book of James, who is concerned not with deep theologically statements about who Jesus and God are, but instead about how it is that we live our lives out, that’s why this series is entitled “where the rubber hits the road.” This is about where we stop talking about our faith, or claiming what we believe and instead start living it out, how it applies to our lives. Which led my wife say to me after last week’s introduction, “so James is the reason why we can eat bacon?” Yes, James is the reason we can eat bacon, because he is the one who ruled that gentile converts, that is non-Jews, did not have to follow Jewish dietary laws or become circumcised to become a Christian. So James is the one who made the Baconnator possible.
Monday, July 6, 2015
A Servant of God
Today we begin a new sermon series looking at the Book or Letter of James, which is found nearly at the end of the New Testament. But for most Protestants it is not a book that we spend a lot of time in or talking about. I have never preached from James before, and I have never heard anyone preach on James either. Just wondering if anyone here has heard sermons from James? I think it’s a shame that James has been ignored because James has a lot to say to us, and important things. So for example, some good advice for any time, but especially for the past few weeks, James says, “You must understand this, my beloved: let everyone be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger.” But there is one line that has sort of cursed James within the Protestant tradition, and that is when James says that faith without works is dead.
At the time of the Protestant reformation, Martin Luther began to proclaim, using the letters of Paul found in the New Testament, that we are saved by faith alone, a tenant that we still hold. So if we are saved by faith alone, and if James is saying that we need works, then Luther needed to reject James. In fact, Luther wanted to remove James from the cannon of scripture entirely, and while he was obviously not successful in that, in Luther’s own writings, which never included a commentary on James, he moved the book of James to a section of lesser, disputed writings. He also called James a book of straw, in comparison to the true gold found in the gospels and the works of Paul. Now I don’t believe that Paul and James were actually saying different things, and we’ll get to that much later, and even though the other reformers did not agree with Luther’s distaste for this letter, which is why it remained in the Bible, Luther did have a huge impact on James’ place within the Protestant tradition, mainly being that it was ignored for large periods of time. But in recent decades James has seen a revision in how it has been viewed and interpreted and its place in the tradition, and so we’re going to build on that a little bit over the next six weeks.
While James is a letter, it is also different then most of the other letters we find in the New Testament. I would invite you to look at James versus some of the other letters, but there is no full greeting, no opening prayer, no commendations, nor does James mention anyone else. It is known as one of the general or catholic epistles, catholic in this sense meaning universal. James addresses it to the twelve tribes in the dispersion, meaning those who are living outside of Palestine, and in particular Jerusalem. It’s not clear who James means by this, but the tradition has tended to believe that he is specifically addressing Jews who have become followers of Christ.









